Some Nerve Author Patty Chang Anker on Her Creative Process #MyWritingProcess Blog Tour 2


I’m thrilled to be a part of the #MyWritingProcess Blog Tour, where writers reveal their creative writing process. We’re featuring Facing Forty Upside Down blogger Patty Chang Anker, whose book Some Nerve was called “downright inspiring” by Oprah.com. She blogs for PsychologyToday.com‘s Anxiety section, Babble.com’s Reinvention series, and her own award-winning Facing Forty Upside Down. Her work has appeared in O Magazine, Marie Claire, Good Housekeeping, the WallStreetJournal.com, iVillage, The Huffington Post and in numerous other publications and websites. She has been named a  Good Housekeeping ”Blogger We Love” and a “Top 25 Funny Mom” on Circle of Moms. Patty is literally changing lives with Some Nerve, helping readers stare down their greatest fears—from speaking in public to learning how to drive as an adult. Next month, she’s leading Team #SomeNerve in the upcoming 5 Boro Bike Tour here in NYC. Go Patty!

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What am I working on?

 

Right now I’m working on blog pieces for PsychologyToday.com (about overcoming anxiety during the learning process), BikingtheBigApple.com (about Team #SomeNerve training for the TD Five Boro Bike Tour), and Facing Forty Upside Down (about finding community as a way to fight fear). I’m also preparing a talk, and drafting content for the paperback of Some Nerve.  The long term  thinking, working, revising a book length project have turned into quick turnarounds for shorter pieces, mostly about how to apply the “lessons learned while becoming brave” in our lives.  It’s fun to take the stories from the book out into the world.

 

 

How does my work differ from others of its genre?

 

My work is part immersion memoir, part journalism, part self-help.  It’s different from most memoir because it’s set in the present and is as much focusd on other people as me. It’s different from most journalism in that while I do often observe classes, therapy sessions, and other interactions without interfering and I do interview experts in traditional settings, I also actively participate at times. I will introduce someone with a fear of driving to a  driving instructor, or take friends with a fear of heights to a ropes course. I set story lines in motion without knowing what’s going to happen and then write about what does.   And it’s different from most self-help in that the information, whether it’s techniques from Toastmasters or psychological approaches used by therapists, is related by what it’s like for me or others to experience these things and not through case studies or tip sheets.

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Why do I write what I do?

I write what I need to read. I need to acknowledge all the crazy talk in my head, poke a little fun at myself, figure out how to find strength to push forward when I’m scared, have enjoyable – even peak – experiences more often,  find out how other people tick, imagine being different tomorrow from today, and then commit all of this in writing so that my girls will remember me as more than “Mom sure was tired.”  I’ve been through many periods of feeling alone – and I write to reach anyone else who feels that way, to tell them it’s ok, come out into the sunshine, come laugh with us and we’ll become brave together.

 

How does my writing process work?

 

For quick short pieces I write well during the day while the kids are at school but for the book, the old “butt in chair” and “writing is a job show up for your job” or “every day set a timer produce X number of words” advice didn’t work at all.  I found the enormity of writing 100K coherent words on deadline overwhelming, and when things needed to be done for the house or the kids once interrupted I couldn’t pick up again.  I was so consumed by what I call my Greek Chorus of Perpetual Doubt “You can’t do this, you don’t know how, another day is gone, tick, tick TICK” showing up for my job left me exhausted and actually steps behind from where I was the day before.  I realized I needed to forge my own way, which was to focus on research until I felt ready to write. This took 8 months out of the 14 I had before my deadline and was nerve wracking. I’ve always performed best close to deadline but it’s one thing to do that for a term paper, it’s another for an entire book! But I’m glad I allowed myself to just be in the field because once you’ve fully absorbed the experiences the stories take root and the brain makes connections to other stories from your past and before you know it elaborate plots with fully developed characters are alive and begging to come out.  Once I was ready I wrote when I felt most free to write –  at night when I was least likely to be interrupted, when everyone else’s needs were met and I wasn’t expected to be productive.  I wrote until 4 in the morning, alone and in the dark but laughing and weeping with all these people I’d grown to care so much about, remembering incredible stories of them at their most courageous, feeling less alone than I’ve ever felt.

 

So much of writing is getting out from under the guilt that we should be doing something else, or we should be doing this a whole lot better.  I say wherever and whenever you can push through that secret bookcase that leads you to a hidden room where you feel most free, that’s where and when to write.  How and why do you write? I’d love to know.

Follow Patty on FaceBook, Twitter and Instagram @PattyChangAnker

 

The Cool People Patty’s Tagging

 

* Una LaMarche is the author of two young adult novels, Five Summers and Like No Other, and a forthcoming collection of humor essays based on some of her more questionable life choices. She is also a contributing writer for The New York Observer and The Huffington Post, and blogs at The Sassy Curmudgeon. Una lives in Brooklyn with her husband and son. You can follow her on Twitter @sassycurmudgeon, and if you pre-order her next book, somewhere up in heaven, a dance circle will form and an angel will successfully jump over its own leg.

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Stay tuned for next Monday when I post my answers and tag more writers!


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2 thoughts on “Some Nerve Author Patty Chang Anker on Her Creative Process #MyWritingProcess Blog Tour

  • Ava Chin Post author

    Thanks Kathy! I find it so inspiring to learn about the process of others too. Last year, Mason Currey published “Daily Rituals: How Artists Work” which was a fast, fascinating read with a number of tantalizing artist and writer profiles. My favorite was Simone De Beauvoire’s, where she essentially got up, kicked whichever lover she was engaged with out of bed, worked hard for several hours, met with Sartre, and then did the whole thing all over again.